Two weeks ago, in my post “Looking Back Looking Forward,” I invited readers to join me in considering our successes and mistakes of 2018 and our goal for 2019. I shared my goal of Indie publishing my memoir, He Heard My Voice. I asked the following question and gave my answer:
What do I/you need to reach your goal?
I need to remain steadfast and focused, balancing my life and cutting out any clutter that gets in the way of reaching this goal.
Now, almost two weeks into the new year, I’m focusing on how to cut out clutter and ways that relates to balancing my life—all in service of reaching my goal.
Over the years, I’ve mostly thought of clutter as physical things that litter my surroundings. As a self-diagnosed ADHD adult, I can easily create this litter from papers, bills, correspondence, the things of daily life and my creative pursuits. But as I’ve gotten older, I see clutter also as non-physical things like excessive noise, overly scheduled time, stored emotional hurts, unreasonable standards, and ways of doing things that are no longer useful. My new definition of clutter is:
Clutter is anything that takes up space in my mind, my emotions, or my physical surroundings and drains energy from me.
What areas of clutter do I need to cut in order to have more energy to focus on my goal?
I need every source of energy possible to do all the tasks that are required to independently publish my book. As I wrote about in the post “Not What I Expected,”I didn’t know that when I would be in the process of publishing my book I would also be taking care of my grandson and maintaining my part-time research nurse job. I need to work smarter because I don’t think I can work any harder. That means being very intentional about how I spend my time.
I’ve identified several areas that I can cut out.
First of all, there’s unnecessary stimuli that is both auditory and visual and keeps my mind engaged, working at a continual level. I watch some television shows out of habit, and while I half watch them, my brain does engage. I often multi-task and half-watch while writing, cooking or folding clothes—not fully focused on any one task. My friend since first grade, Donna, recently told me that now that she’s older, she’s decided she’s just going to do one thing at the time. How much cleaner that is than trying to juggle multiple things.
I remember that when I was a school nurse and had students return after concussions, they had strict guidelines on having periods of rest for their brains in order for them to heal from their injury. Sometimes my mind requires rest from overstimulation so that when I need to focus on what matters like my book, then I’ll have the reserves available.
Secondly, some of the clutter in my life is sticking to old patterns of doing things that no longer serve me. I used to feel like I had to personally respond to needs in my community in the same fashion as my mother. For example, if there was someone who was sick, she would take that person a homemade meal. Now, I have to realize that times have changed and I have to look closely at the decisions I make. It may be enough to send a card or a gift certificate to a restaurant, in order to balance my life, my precious time.
A third area of clutter is the lingering perfectionist ideas that are rigid and keep me bound to old ways of thinking. When I keep my grandson, Baker, I think of all the things he’s learning now that he’s 8 months old. I want the days with “Grammy”to be rich in helping him to grow and develop. But I realize that I don’t have to be reading to him the best books for children all the time. He is nurtured by hearing my voice reading anything, by our time together, and watching me valuing books.
Yesterday, when thinking about an upcoming recording session for my audio book, I practiced reading to Baker while he ate his teething crackers. I think he was just as entertained as when I read Winnie the Pooh!
These are my first steps in 2019 toward cutting clutter from my life so I can work smarter to publish my book. Each step is made in faith that I’m moving closer toward balancing my life and accomplishing the work I feel God has given me to do.
Blessings to You in the week ahead as you step closer to your goal.
How About You?
What is the clutter in your life?
How do you see it impacting your goals?
What steps can you take now to cut the clutter?
7 thoughts on “Steps Toward the Goal: Cutting Clutter”
You and Baker make a beautiful picture. Grandkids are known for their clutter in your life. That clutter I will keep around and hold dear to my heart. As they get older they create another type. I believe that you will be able to unclutter your life this year. Hope that sales of the book are strong and that the Audio version will have great success. Make 2019 what you need it to be and keep the great post on your life and journeys coming. The best to you and your.
Thanks so much for reading and for your encouragement. Yes, grandkids do leave their own clutter, but that kind I look on with a smile! Thanks for your good wishes for my book.
Keep me in your prayers as I take the needed steps with the audio and print/ebook versions of my memoir.
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Yeah. This is the “me too” movement I belong to— the one that hoarders of clutter belong to. I have difficulty living a minimalistic life. Yet, I think I can if forced to. I wrote an essay which is now on Sasee that deals with this very idea, Cast Off. Have you read it? I ‘d originally written it for a theme for a Chicken Soup for the Soul book. I throw out nothing. So when it wasn’t chosen, I resubmitted. This time it was chosen by Sasee.
Thanks for reading and commenting. No, I don’t think I’ve seen Cast Off but it sounds like one I certainly need to read!
Best to you as you deal with your own forms of clutter.
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Thanks for mentioning my post, Marie. Wishing everyone the best in the week ahead, cutting out whatever clutter leaves you with a better life.